i heart [supportive friends]

One of those emails from Heidi, when I read in the morning, totally makes my day:

"just restart the 5 year clock. i say it bluntly because you just have to have hope. if things were meant to be..they were meant to be. even if it means we'll all get married, then divorced, then finally get with them when we are 30 or 40. you just have to have hope. or that is what i tell myself. love is only half the battle. and right now in our life it is important to put emphasis on ourselves and our careers..because that is the only thing we can really guarantee will be there for us in a few years. it is important to get ourselves established and enjoy life without needing to make huge sacrifices at such a young age. dont beat yourself up over this. i always think that im glad it hurts this much because it means i love someone that much...and a lot of people out there our age dont know what it is like to experience something like this.
so appreciate it, despite the pain. LOVE YOU!"

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